Touch

Touch Me!
I'm yearning to feel you
Touch Me!
My Body screams in anticipation
Touch Me!
I can't hold back any longer
My desire is growing stronger
You reach out your hand
And then I feel you
Touch Me!
Your lips touch mine
It feels so divine
My legs feel weak
I can't find air to speak, as you
Kiss Me!
Your hands they caress
The swell of my breast
My Nipples respond
As they and your mouth form a bond, as you
Tease Me!
My every sense is awake
How much more can I take
Yet I don't want to stop
Need you to take me over the top, as you
Please Me!
As your hands travel south
Closely followed by your mouth
Gently spreading my legs apart
Increasing the beat of my racing heart, as you
Stroke Me!
Then I feel your warm wet tongue inside
And I throw my head back and my eyes roll wide
Enjoying the feel of you pleasing my clit
Then savour my juices not missing a bit, as you
Taste Me!
Oh you've pleased me so well
I reach down and stroke your swell
As I fall to my knees and smile
Cos I know this will keep me busy a while, as I
Devour You!
As Our bodys join
Loin to Loin
Our pleasures escalate
To the point we jointly break, as you,
Love Me!

© I.Charles 2004

Worthy Cause - The My Purple Pledge 2011 Campaign

Epilepsy.......

How many of us actually know what this is? 

As a child I remember reading in a booklet for a game on my Sega Game Gear (Old Skool Baybee) that the lights in the game could cause an epileptic fit and I turned to my Mum slightly scared by this and she said I had to actually have the condition called Epilepsy first. At the time I just kinda breathed a sigh of relief and was eager to get to kicking some ass with Sonic! 

But one day, I'll have children...what if one of them has Epilepsy?! Do I now at age 27 know what it is?! If I'm honest, I previously didn't.

Then I was asked if I could do a post regarding a campaign called "The My Purple Pledge" campaign and I felt it was as good a time as any to open my mind to something that 60, 000 children and young people in the UK are affected by. I found this website most useful in getting to know about Epilepsy.

But the question remains.... 

"What is The My Purple Pledge Campaign?"

It runs from March to May 2011 with "Purple Day" being March 26th 2011. The campaign is led by Insight2Marketing on behalf of  the National Centre for Young People with Epilepsy (NCYPE) who's aim is to "help create better futures for young lives with epilepsy" with the campaign bringing a very worthy cause to the attention of the masses. They will however need our help!

"How Can I Help The 'My Purple Pledge Campaign'?"

In any way you are able to help raise funds and/or awareness! Bake sales, Purple Themed Parties, Sponsored Silences, Wearing Purple Outfits/Clothing Items, Bike Rides, Running Marathons, Posting Blogs, Sharing Tweets....Let your imagination run free and each one can reach one! 

(I'm currently contemplating a Sponsored Non-Tweet Day or Weekend - now you KNOW that's gonna be hard for me)

The official website for "The Purple Pledge Campaign" launches THIS week and so will be able to answer a lot of questions and fill any gaps I may have missed. You'll be able to find it at http://www.mypurplepledge.com 

For those of you on Twitter, Follow the Campaign HERE and use the hashtag #mypurplepledge

Also check out the NCYPE website

Poem - Keeping It Real For Me

Keep It Real For Me!

In my moment of clarity

I see past my poverty

I’m not talking bout having things that are monetary

I’m trying to set myself free

Escape the madness and stress in this world

And thorns of hate which round my heart curled

Life aint always been easy for this girl

Wasn’t raised wrapped up like a precious pearl

Refuse to walk through this life blinded by illusion

Fed up of my body being invaded by intrusion

I know where I’ve been and where I wanna go

Don’t think you can stop me by labelling me a hoe.

You fail to impress me with the cars and the bling,

Trying to keep me prisoner with a solitaire ring

You can’t drape me in Gucci

Aint no designer hoochie

You can’t fumble in my bra

In the back of your car

I’m elevating myself beyond all of this

No longer fooled by false words or a sweet kiss

Whoever dropped the line ignorance is bliss

Has never felt the pain of this young Miss

Found hurt and pain at such a young age

But I’ve put that behind me and turned the page

A new chapter to begin, This battle I shall win

Not a physical fight, but one from within

At times we are our own worst enemy

But I’ve chosen to be the best friend of me

Forsaking all others and doing for self,

Keeping It Real – For ME! 

© I. Charles 2005

Let Me Buy You A Drank

(#NoTPain!!!)

So, recently on Twitter @BornToRoyalty (follow her!!) questioned which females without the influence of alcohol, would approach a man they were attracted to? To which I responded “I’ve done it before and I’d do it again”. This sparked a convo between us (as we do, I mean really you should check some of our exchanges!)

For a woman to approach a man in that manner is seen to be quite “brave.” The majority of females if interested in a man will either a) front and ignore it or b) (as BTR said) “do the eye contact thing & hope he gets the msg!” 

Now whilst the latter is far from a bad route, I mean face it who really likes rejection, why is it seen as such an abnormality for a woman to approach a man? 

Y’all who sat there with Destiny’s Child screaming you bought it and declaring your independence are more likely to be the ones in the club sat around, top lip push up til ya sniffing it talking “man wants to push up on me and dance but he can’t even buy me a drink.” or “Nah blad I don’t know why he’s over there smiling at me, if he wants me to notice him, he needs to bring me a drink and introduce himself.” Did you leave your independence at home? If you want a drink why not buy yourself one and him too? 

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I thought I’d give you a moment for that concept to sink in. YES I incredulously suggested that YOU bearer of breasts n flange dip into your fancy little purse and purchase a beverage for a Man! (This is where you chicks that spend £200 on your purse for the dance only to have nothing to put in it may feel to bow out, thanks for joining me). The below is very fitting here:

“#IdFeelEmbarassed If I went to a rave with a LV bag, remi hair, jimmy choo shoes& yet I'm begging for a ride home. Why can't u afford a taxi” - @BornToRoyalty

In the situation where I in the past approached a guy without boring you with details, I offered to buy him a drink and he initially looked at me as if I’d said “Strange man, can I have your babies?” then accepted and we engaged in lovely conversation and a 6 month whirlwind of good damn times. Woohoo!!

BTR however relayed a situation in which a friend done the same, she stood up, confident and comfortable enough to offer to buy a man a drink and what was his response? Did he gracefully accept? No! Politely decline? No! The man had the audacity to tell the lady she was “too forward” and he didn’t like it. 

One time I bought a cinema ticket for a guy and his response was “how you doing that like man’s some bitch?!”……I refrained from the potential drama on that one, believe I wanted to cuss him. I know other ladies who have offered to pay yet have been told by men “no it’s the mans role” etc.

Our unified conclusion to the “being too forward” type comment: Male insecurity is a BITCH! Some male’s insecurity in their position as a man is the cause of many women refraining from being more open in initiating first contact and paying. If a woman has it “too together” (i.e. she has it more together than him) he will have a problem. There’s a thin line behind being a boy and a man.

Disclaimer: Don’t get it twisted though there’s some cheap ass women out there who better don’t even dare to consider using this post as a point of reference or as your new “reason” for being tight and selfish!

When I saw the following posted by @DiggyDash the day after it made me laugh ironically “Ladies, if you really like a man, why dont you ask him out on a date.. and pay? why is it the 'norm' that a man must make the first move?”
 

What the flying fox foot is a woman to do?! Make a move and we’re too forward, don’t and it’s a problem anyway. 

From the perspective of a grown ass woman who handles her own I speak to the men out there: – 

Do not be threatened or insulted by a woman who is actually confident and comfortable enough to show interest in you, whether that’s initial interest or by taking you out to show you our appreciation of you! We aren’t trying to make you feel redundant; we’re showing you that we see something special and/or different in you that we feel is worth a bigger investment than the money we are spending – Time investment! Money can be recouped, Time cannot! We are the Interdependent Women that are woman enough to let you be a man. Last time I checked being a man didn’t equate to being a walking bank account. We aren’t trying to crush your balls nor are we trying to belittle your position in our lives. All we’re showing you is that, in this day and age where so many women are self-centred witches lost in the crevice of their own ass,  you deserve to be made to feel good about yourself, appreciated and looked after just as much as we Women do.